- Free for Basic membership.
- Upgrades are availalbe for Premium membership:
- 1
Month: GB £21
- 3
Months: GB £38 (£12.66 per month)
- 6 Months:
GB £64 (£10.66 per month)
- Create your
own profile and upload your pictures.
- Perform
searches for other members within your local area.
- Browse other members' profiles, look at their
pictures.
- Email other members using My Single
Friend's
internal e-mail system (premium members only).
- Block
members from accessing your listing. You can block them from
e-mailing you too.
- Complete
privacy protection
- no one will know your identity unless you inform them!
- Joining here
is through a "Friend".
They must
sign you up and complete a testimonial on your behalf. This
is
explained in detail in the Editors Verdict section.
- A full search facility is available, allowing members to
search by:
- gender
- age range
- sexual
preference
- location
to within 10 miles of where you live
- whether
the member has
pictures posted
- ethnicity
- smoking
- drinking
- employment
type
- education level
- children
- diet
- height
- body type
My Single Friend was founded by
Sarah
Beeny, a property developer best known for presenting the Channel 4 property shows Property Ladder, Streets Ahead and Britain’s Best Homes. After many years successfully "setting her friends up", she decided to open a
website dedicated to friends helping other friends find
suitable
relationships.
Frankly, when we first understood
what this
site's approach was we anticipated finding a struggling
site with problems. Our pre-conception was that
people are
too busy to go through all the legwork of signing up a friend and
authoring a glowing testimonial. We were quite wrong.
Real
friends go out of their way to provide stellar testimonals! As a result, this site is a
bonafide winner with lots of activity and (we surmise)
upwards of
a million friends helping friends. It can be refreshing when a pre-conception is proven wrong.
The
success of MySingleFriend is admirable. Their "no nonsense approach" and transparent policies, as they put it, plays a large part in the site's success. In
their own words, "We set up mysinglefriend.com because traditional dating sites did not offer the fun, the fair
policies, the customer service and safety that online dating deserves". In short, they get it. Many of the
practices that
some mainstream sites follow are (in our view)
detrimental to the members' personal satisfaction and potential dating
success. We'll illustrate how MSF does it right.
Many sites intentionally retain all their free
accounts (and even share them) to boost the appearance of
higher member totals. As a result, those kinds of sites are loaded with
dead
memberships. In contrast, MySingleFriend remove inactive profiles from
the
site. They also make it easy for you to see how recently another member has logged in, through the use of a
search parameter: last day, week , month or 2-3
months. This is an extremely useful feature as it allows you to see how keen a member is.
They also clearly state that they
are a UK
operation and don't accept profiles from other locations.
They don't want your money if they can't serve you - a very
fair-minded approach. In fact, they are mindful of many of the kind of things that drive members crazy or, worse still, drive them away.
MySingleFriend is a human-operated site.
All the profiles are "vetted" by people rather than machines and members
concerns
are efficiently handled by customer service people (not auto-generated replies). They boast a 95.4% customer satisfaction score.
That's quite an endorsement.
So, how well does
this site
run and serve the needs of their clientele. MySingleFriend
claims over 100
couples per month. That's very good especially if they really
mean 'couples' and not just a couple of dates and it's been nice
knowing you. We'll grant them the benefit of the
doubt
there.
In our benchmark search
(UK style) we had
over 250 profiles presented. We checked a number of them
carefully to see that they really did meet our search criteria, which
they did. The Profile comprises the referring friend's
testimonial page. Some are fairly lengthy essays
while
others are to the point and concise. In either
form
they are wonderfully complimentary and actually quite enjoyable to read. There's enough personal infromation regarding habits and
preferences to get a good idea of the member's likes and dislikes.
Photo-wise
we were and still are blown away. More than 85% of the members had
photos, and not just the obligatory one. Most have several
images
to see. The quality of the pictures is superb as is the
viewer
software that permits a great enlargement feature to fully illustrate
the photo handling quality here. This is the best photo
section
we've seen, hands down.
This really is a top notch UK dating site, with a
large number of active members, all keen to date, and most having lots of excellent photos to feast your eyes on.
Being analytical animals, we must mention a few of the vagaries of
note: Activities-wise MySingleFriend
is not equipped with a chat room or an instant messenger. You need a
Premium membership to make contact with other members through a well-protected
privacy assured internal e-mail system.
However, you could argue that MySingleFriend are able to keep their rates reasonable by not loading the
site up with electronic gadgets. They realize that we have computers
with instant messenger service already in place.
We like to see on-site live communications to support
activities and build community. Because of the
way MySingleFriend operate, they have the involvement not only of the member, but
of their friends too. Think of the
networking possibilities!
My Single Friend have re-defined and expanded
the
concept of webdating with their novel idea, they have taken customer service to a new level and have become very successful as a result.
There are no special technical features at MySingleFriend.
They don't
feel that you need them. They have the most special feature in full swing -
a
caring site that is delivering an excellent user-experience. Check them out if your a UK
resident, or better yet, recommend a friend!
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